“The Real Reason Couples Split!” Kate Daly on The Silent Signs Of Divorce!
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What are the silent warning signs that a relationship is in trouble?
So the postnup is like divorce insurance, you would
go It's gone the other way now, if she spent all mine and kept all her, so I'm coming for her now.
If we split up, the man of my dreams came along. Probably will, Marion.
You're cop
blocking my new relationship.
John Gottman developed a system for being able to tell whether a couple would get divorced or not. So
I don't want to get divorced.
Hello and welcome to the Therapy Crouch with me, Abby Glency.
Me Pia Crouch. Ami Gaz. Hello guys.
Yep, we've got a divorce specialist on today.
Yes, we do.
We
mentioned it last week that we should get one on and we've only gone and bloody done it.
We've only gone a bloody done
it. Good ideas, both.
Maybe. I just want to see where I stand.
See where you stand, yeah.
Okay.
Do you know what in prepping for this episode we pulled up some interesting facts, didn't we, collectively? Yeah, I've got them out. Funny enough, Gaz. Oh yeah? Yeah.
The average UK marriage lasts uh twelve point seven years before divorce.
Mm. We're out of the woods then, hopefully.
Well we I I think we're in the higher echelon of marriage.
Nice.
That's crazy though, isn't it? That's so common. Twelve years. Jesus. Well it is common, eh? I think everyone everyone's got a friend who's divorced
at least one. Yeah. I
don't understand when like sixty five year olds get divorced.
Mm. Or
like seventy year olds.
Well, there's a stat. Do you guys know the oldest divorcing couple? I'm just reading it here.
The oldest couple divorced or getting divorced are ninety nine and ninety six.
Can you imagine?
Surely just ride that one out, no. Surely. He left her after sixty years over love letters he found from the forties.
By the written word. How crazy is that?
I've just got goosebumps, that is heartbreaking there. That is heartbreaking. Was slut?
Uh Oh my god, he must have been demoed. Imagine that. Imagine like
knowing you're gonna die with the person you love.
That is heartbreaking right at the end, isn't it? Why would she keep the love letters? Oh bam. I I I don't want to get into that. I'm gonna cry.
Don't cry, baby.
Um women file for nearly two thirds of UK divorces. That's sixty three percent.
I'm not shocked at that.
Yeah, I mean you mentioned
U
men. The Maldives has the world's highest divorce rate. What? And once hit a record ten point nine seven per thousand people. Isn't that crazy?
God, how could anyone have any stresses in the Maldives?
It's almost the opposite. They actually I did some digging. It's so cheap to get married and divorced there. Everyone's more free. They like marry and divorce freely and they live their best life. Oh, so it's that's why you sound a bit
more promiscuous.
I think so. I think it's kind of what yeah,
the internet was told. Also, if you go to the Maldives like we've fortunate enough to have been there, there's not a lot to do.
Yeah,
to be fair. Like built a sand castle, you you can't about. It's done, you're done. See, I I d
I disagree with that.
Well no, I l I love it, but I'm just saying if you
Malay's a busy city.
Yeah, no, it's it was quite busy. We were on the islands. But I suppose if you if you go like where we stay. I
thought there was plenty to do.
You're right, baby.
Jim Rummy.
Oh yeah. Snap. Monopoly deals. All of that.
Uno
Um the no fault no fault divorce only became a law in England and Wales in April. Uh and applications jumped fifty percent in the first fortnight. No fault divorce. No fault divorce. So it's like you don't have to state a re like a reason, it's just divorce. Oh right. I just made it up, yeah.
The way I the way I
took that is like do you have to state a reason, a fault. I hope
you're right. So
I think that's true. But I'm not an expert. We've got that's why I've got the expert on. Yeah, you you bang on.
Yeah.
Well you don't have to
prove any wrongdoing or any fault. Yeah.
I'm not a pretty face.
Yeah. Okay.
Uh first Monday of January is nicknamed Divorce Day. That's just like the m the Monday what blue January blues or whatever. It says here it's when solicitors get the most uh tap ups from people. Yes, it's like you spend Christmas with them and you're like, Oh can't and it's also New Year's resolution time, isn't it?
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
What are the silent warning signs that a relationship is in trouble?
0:00–5:46
2
How does Kate Daly define an amicable (friendly) divorce and why does it matter?
5:46–13:47
3
What financial tools (prenups, post‑nups, living‑together agreements) can protect couples before and after marriage?
13:47–23:09
4
Why do couples choose to take the legal system to court and what can be learned from Kate’s experience?
23:09–31:37
5
How should parents approach child custody and shared parenting after a separation?
31:37–39:57
6
What does the relationship quiz reveal about common red‑flags and communication habits?
39:57–47:10
7
How do long‑term couples (21 years together) navigate staying together ‘for the kids’ versus splitting up?
47:10–52:50
8
How can we destigmatize divorce and support people emotionally and legally through the process?
52:50–1:01:19
Speakers
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