E1194 - Get Out. | Ask Nick
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He broke into my house and went through every nick and cranny of my home. Yeah,
that's crazy.
He denied it for months and then I got access to my ring camera and found everything.
How's it going?
Great. How are you doing?
Good. What's your name?
My name is Charlie. I'm twenty-nine years old. How
can I help Charlie?
I'm wondering if my fiance is going to change or should I nip it in the bud and walk away?
What does he need to change?
Well, he has been very on edge as well as I have. We're very stressed out at the moment. We've only known each other about eight months. And I just feel like This whole time it's just been. One thing after another. I don't I can't even remember a day when we haven't fought.
Okay. But give me give me right off the top of your head, give me five things or whatever, the of things specific that you want him to change. Cause if you want him to change, you need to know what you want him to change. And it c and it and it can't be a vague if it's just like be a better fiance. I don't know what to you know, I'm you know what
Yeah.
So what are give me give me one one thing you want me to change? Be specific.
I would say one of the biggest things is calming down.
Okay.
And not taking everything so seriously. That's number one.
So he's pr he's he's pretty reactive when he gets angry and he gets angry over what you feel like are little things.
Very, very reactive.
Do you feel unsafe in those situations?
Yes, because
that's that's a big deal. That doesn't need to be a because.
Sometimes, but a lot of the time my my anxiety just goes from
Someone in theory could be doing nothing wrong, but if you don't feel safe, that is enough for you to question the relationship. You maybe aren't compatible, but usually there's, you know, you don't need it because. You can just say, I feel unsafe and that's it. Okay. Um, what's another thing?
Another thing would be to slow down on the phone calls and the texts during the day. He calls me about fifty times a day and blows up my
And does it feel like obsessive, like he's checking in on you and yeah, okay.
Yes.
These are some pretty intense flaws.
Yes. I I hate to be so like, oh, he has all these problems 'cause there are some good things about him.
I'm sure. I'm sure. But I mean I Quite frankly, I'm not really even interested in hearing the positive. I don't know. If I was like, What are the biggest things you want to change? And he's this you know, like, he plays too many video games. Well, I mean, there's a lot of women who justifia you know, but like m that's something we can maybe work with. It's like, okay, you know, can you Okay, he wants to play video games, he gets something out of it, it's his his it's his it's his hobby, fine. I wanna I wanna accept that. But yeah, I need him to balance that a a little bit more than he is okay, that's something we can work with. And then you can be like, Well, he's you know, he's uh he sh you know, he does all this, and he does all that, and it's so great.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
What is the opening ad read‑out and how does it set the tone for the episode?
0:00–5:27
2
Should I stay with my fiancé or leave? How does the caller decide?
5:27–11:33
3
What specific red‑flags should I look for when my fiancé is overly reactive and invasive?
11:33–17:12
4
Is it safe to stay in a relationship where my partner broke into my house and denied it for months?
17:12–24:21
5
Should I tell my best friend that her fiancé masturbated at the engagement party?
24:21–31:04
6
How can I protect my friendship while delivering this uncomfortable truth?
31:04–38:57
7
How do I start dating again after a divorce and a Mormon upbringing?
38:57–59:22
8
What final advice does Nick give for moving forward after these relationship challenges?
59:22–1:02:27
Speakers
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