Chapter 1: What should I do about my best friend's affair?
I'm sure. I don't really... Okay.
Yeah.
but I think you should respect your partner.
She'd love you for saying that. She's like, maybe you should go on, and I want to know what he's got to say. I'm like, he's not going to just side with me because I'm the caller.
Well, why do you think, I mean, do you want to go there or not?
Sure.
How upset do you think your partner is going to be?
We've talked a lot about this this morning. Honestly, I think she's most upset that she kept saying, I'm so sad that I took this opportunity away from you. I know how much you love this podcast. And like, I honestly think she felt guilty more than anything.
Because she told you, you can't do it.
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Chapter 2: How can I cope with feeling betrayed by a friend?
I don't really want to go into the specifics of it, but basically like he's trying to figure out where to live his life and how to live his life so that he can heal. Um, so his immediate plan was to try to move somewhere different, um, which might help him or just be more exciting to him. He's kind of a flighty person. He's always moved from place to place. He's avoided relationships.
How significant is his health concern in terms of, not to get all morbid, but are we talking a fatal life condition or is this something he's just going to have to live with and he has every reason to expect he can live a full life despite this thing he's dealing with?
it is unclear um it doesn't seem to be like fatal in the immediate term um but it definitely impedes a lot of what he's able to do on a daily basis they're kind of still it's a fairly new thing and they're looking for solutions to it but it's not not really clear right now okay and why can't he be the dad he wants to be Yeah, so I think it's a mixture of he can't and he doesn't want to be.
To be honest, like he can't provide financially, which is okay. Like I have a job and I also have a strong support system who will be able to support me physically, financially and emotionally if need be. And the other thing is he feels like raising a baby, like with all of the exhaustion that goes with it and like the commitment.
will be a detriment to him like a part of this is extreme fatigue and he can get exhausted like very easily just from a conversation with someone so he is worried about that aspect of it even though I'm not asking him to like stay up nights and like take care of the crying baby I'm kind of like he has enough energy to have sex that's a fair point yeah he does
I mean, where does mom come into this equation where she feels like she has an opinion on what you should do with your body?
So she came in kind of after I told him that I've made a decision and I would really like appreciate it if he would stop pressuring me so I can focus on reducing my stress. Yeah. She reached out to me the next day and asked if she could talk to me. And then we had like an hour and a half long conversation where she said some really diabolical stuff.
um like what that this is like extremely cruel and selfish and i would just be if i had this baby i would just be like shattering so many lives like pieces of broken glass and that is a crazy thing to say uh they also both have implied that i am at fault for getting myself pregnant and of course you know well yeah of course yeah yeah
And that I it's really fucked up that I didn't sit him down and tell him that I probably wouldn't want to have an abortion if I got pregnant unexpectedly. Like that is a huge thing that they both keep bringing up.
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