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The holidays are here! So, in this podcast we'll discuss how to make the very most of the holiday season in terms of planning, relaxing, networking, and strategizing.
David: Hello, happy holidays and welcome to the podcast! Today co-host Chris Templeton and I will be discussing how to make the most of the holiday season. We've got a nice fire going, we've got some chestnuts roasting, a warm cup of holiday cheer. So, I'd say we are all set to get started. Welcome Chris.
Chris: Hi David. Thanks for having me. Nice to feel so warm all over, ready for the holidays!
David: Nice, isn't it?
Chris: So you are talking about the holidays and you're also talking about talking business. Don't our listeners deserve just a little break?
David: Yes. And don't we deserve a little break?
Chris: Absolutely.
David: Yeah, we probably do, but I think if many of our listeners are like me and perhaps like you as well, we may be thinking business even when we're taking a break. Even when we're relaxing, sometimes things are going on in the back of our minds. And I think a lot of us, during the course of the holiday season, we do like to take some time to sort of relax, recuperate a bit, but then as that happens we get a bit of a break in the action, and in a lot of cases that's when some of our best ideas come to us, isn't it?
Chris: It certainly is. I was writing as you were talking about back of the mind. So much happens back there, especially when we give it a break and when we kind of turn off the front end activity, doesn't it?
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David: Yeah, and that's why I really love this time of year because I think it's a great combination of that. Of course you're getting toward the end of one year, so you're able to think back in terms of what worked well and what didn't work as well. You're able to think forward in terms of what do I want to have happen next year and work toward that. You maybe get a little bit of time off, hopefully you do. If you're able to take the weekend before and you're able to take the weekend after and you get a break during the week, it does provide some opportunity to just sort of relax a bit, think about stuff and figure out where we're going next.
Chris: And I think it's just a really important point to just say to your listeners: You know what? It's okay to relax. It's okay to take some time off and let that behind the scenes brain of yours work and come up with some new ideas. Give yourself permission to let yourself go a little bit for the holidays, don't you think?
David: Yes. Not only is it okay, I would argue that it's necessary because if you don't do that, then you never really get to that point of rest where your brain can come up with things that it's sort of free-styling in a way. When you're focused too much on work all the time, you're just putting out fires or you're thinking about what needs to come next, then you end up getting stuck. And so, it's nice just to be able to clear your head a little bit, enjoy yourself, relax, and allow some new ideas and new thoughts to pop into your head.
Chris: So when you think about it, what do you think the best mix of relaxation versus thinking, planning and strategizing should be?
David: Well, I imagine it's going to be different for everyone. Some people already relax more than others and some people tend not to relax more than others. So depending on where you are on that spectrum, that's going to impact it. But if you are the type of business owner or salesperson or business professional who is constantly engaged, who doesn't take the time to just sort of throttle back for a little while and allow some time to pass and clear out your head, then this is really a great opportunity to do that. So if you're not doing it, I would encourage you to do so. If you are the type of person who takes regular breaks and mental hiatuses so that you can allow the thoughts to come to you, then great, you're already doing it; but when we look at that mix of sort of relaxation, creative thinking, planning, strategizing, perhaps goal setting this time of year. It's just a nice time to be able to take a little bit of time and do that. As far as percentages are concerned, I think that's going to vary, but in a lot of cases you'll know. If you're feeling burned out, if you feel like you just really haven't had an opportunity to chill out, then maybe you need to take a little more time this year than you've taken in the past. If you have a fairly balanced existence as far as that's concerned, then maybe it's not as much of an issue and you can think about some things in terms of what you'd like to have happen in the coming year and use the holiday season to be able to start processing those thoughts.
Chris: I think about the person that you mentioned earlier that's going a hundred miles an hour. They're putting out fires all the time, and I think they're the ones that probably need this more than anybody else. But what do you do for somebody like that who's a pro? They're working hard and the holidays roll around, they're like, I can't turn this off.
David: Right. There are a lot of people who struggle to turn it off and I know I've certainly fallen into that category on more than one occasion. And even, you know, we just had Thanksgiving not too long ago in the US a few weeks ago and for that holiday weekend, I know that there were times where I felt like perhaps I should be relaxing a little more, but an idea will pop into my head; and next thing I know I've gotten my phone out and I'm adding notes to take care of things for when I get back. And to some extent it might be the nature of the beast. It's not that we need to constantly turn things off mentally, but we need to allow ourselves at least a little bit of flexibility, a little bit of time, so that our brains can relax and generate some new ideas and different ideas so that when we're ready to engage again, we've got some stuff to work with.
Chris: I think the other thing to keep in mind is just like we talked about, give yourself permission that it's okay for you to turn things off regardless of how that goes. Don't fight it. And then the other thing is people say you've got your phone all the time. Well, this is one of those things where you can decide what to turn off, but also take the time when that good idea pops into your head and get it into some kind of a system, someplace written down that works for you. And I think that's the other thing is just looking at this whole thing and saying, yeah, take the time to give yourself a break, but don't pass up those good ideas.
David: Right. And at the beginning of this podcast we'd talked about a couple of things. We talked about the idea of planning and when I'm talking about planning, I don't mean that you really have to put your head down and do a lot of hard work in terms of planning, particularly during a week like this. It's a nice time to just sort of relax and just maybe let your mind wander a bit and think in terms of what do I think I might like to have happen over the course of the next year. Right? Even that type of thing that's sort of brainstorming counts as planning. You can start to plan what you'd like your year to look like and then we also talked about relaxing, being able to take the opportunity to just chill a bit, relax the brain and allow those thoughts to come. We also touched on the idea of networking. I had mentioned that at the start of the podcast and during the holiday season we don't really think in terms of networking, and I don't even necessarily mean it from a business standpoint, but the idea that we're going to be interacting with other people. We'll be interacting with friends, we'll be interacting with family members, we'll be interacting with people perhaps that we don't know. It's a great opportunity just to have conversations that allow people to get to know us better, allows us to get to know other people better and to just have that sort of open communication. So even from a networking standpoint doesn't necessarily have to mean business, but if you're having a conversation and you find that you're able to help someone with what you do, then by all means those conversations can certainly be had. Finally in terms of strategizing, the whole idea of just taking a little bit of time and thinking through, "What is my strategy, what do I want to happen over the course of the next year, and then what are going to be the actions? What will be the specific things that I will do to start to make that sort of thing happen?" It's just a nice time to be able to think those things through and to start to take action on them.
Chris: I have two comments. Number one is when it comes to a lot of what you're talking about with the planning and the strategizing, especially; I think it's a good time to be in kind of solution mode or dream mode. You know, this is what it would be really nice to have happen in the coming year and just be a little more loose with it. Doesn't that make sense?
David: I think it makes perfect sense and once again, we're looking to try to find that balance between allowing our brains to rest and also to be able to generate those sorts of ideas.
Chris: So how do I turn my family and social events into networking events? David, I don't know that I want to…
David: No, I don't really know that you want to do that either. I'm not really suggesting that you do that.