Listener Subscriptionhttps://weneedtotalkwithdrdarcysterling.supercast.com/Estrangement can bring peace and still leave a mark — this episode names what doesn’t disappear after no contact, even when the decision was necessary and right.In this episode we examine the psychological impact of family estrangement and the hidden emotional cost of going no contact. While estrangement often brings immediate relief—reducing conflict, stress, and daily friction—relief is not the same as closure. Attachment bonds do not automatically dissolve when contact ends, and unresolved dynamics can remain psychologically active long after the decision is made.Joined by Dr. Joshua Coleman, this episode explores the tension many people experience after estrangement: feeling certain about the choice while still carrying complex or unfinished emotions. Rather than debating whether estrangement is right or wrong, the conversation focuses on what happens internally once a relationship is severed.In this episode, we explore:Why no contact does not guarantee emotional resolutionThe role of ambiguous loss in family estrangementHow attachment bonds persist after physical separationThe long-term impact of parent–adult child estrangementThe difference between boundaries and emotional avoidanceThis episode offers a clinically grounded look at estrangement, attachment, and the work required for true emotional integration.Xxoo DarcyREFERENCES/RESOURCESwww.alternativescounseling.comRules of Estrangement: Why Adult Children Cut Ties & How to Heal the ConflictCREDITS“We Need To Talk With Dr. Darcy Sterling” is a Sterling Standard Production. Editing and sound engineering by Bart Migal. Our theme music is by Trending Music. Special thanks to Amanda Cristiani and Robyn Jaenchen. DISCLAIMERInstagram:@drdarcysterling Facebook:Dr.Darcy SterlingTik Tok:@doctordarcysterling Twitter:@DrDarcySterling YouTube:@DarcySterling Threads:@drdarcysterlingWatch this episode here on YouTube. Listener Subscriptionhttps://weneedtotalkwithdrdarcysterling.supercast.com/

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