The POWER of Helping One Homeless Person at a Time! The Story Of Rema Mays
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What is the power of helping one homeless person?
This was very hard for me to make public. But the woman that you're going to meet, Rima Mays, is the blessing of my life. And the reason I'm introducing her to everyone is because I have a hard time believing that we allow people to live like this. I don't think anybody should have to live like this. We can all sponsor a homeless person. It's not hard and it's not that expensive.
Where did Rema grow up and when did she become homeless?
Okay.
So, Rima, how long, sweetheart, were you homeless? Well, before we get there, okay, what I want to talk about is you were born in Alabama.
Yes.
What challenges did Rema face while being homeless?
And you lived in Alabama all your life.
Basically, yes.
How long were you in Alabama for?
Well, most of my, I want to say teenage and adult life.
How did Rema and Richard meet and what was the turning point?
Okay. And then when you left there, when you left Alabama, where, Mobile? Mobile, Alabama? Where were you? What part of Alabama?
Tuscaloosa, Alabama.
You lived in Tuscaloosa, Alabama?
I'm from Tuscaloosa, Alabama.
What lessons does Rema share about kindness and gratitude?
Hold on a second. Krista, go grab me my Alabama crescent tide. Roll tide. Roll tide. Now, in 2019, when you get here, what do you do? Where are you living?
I found a seasonal shelter. It was the old, I learned it was the old Armory building over on Federal and Wilshire.
I'm sorry, you stayed on Federal and Wilshire?
I found a seasonal shelter there.
What does that mean, a seasonal shelter?
How does the system take advantage of low-income individuals?
You can only stay there for a limited time. It's seasonal, like...
I don't know. They'll give you one season there. You get three months there.
Yeah. Yeah. Something like that. I didn't stay there very long at all because what I didn't like about that shelter was two reasons, three reasons. The first reason was they had us sleeping on carts, little bitty hard carts and they give you a blanket. Carts.
Carts. So it's like, it's like this big, wide, and it's got this little thing like this, like a,
Something really thin.
Yeah.
Honey, when I would get on that car at night, oh my goodness, the next morning I'd be stiff. I could not move. That car was killing me. And then the second reason why I didn't like it was... The food, oh, my goodness. I didn't really need to eat there anyway, you know, but I just took the food to show appreciation and, you know, just kind of sipped out of it. But the food was like, who cooked it and why? You know what I mean? Who made this and why? So that wasn't good. And so the third real reason why I left that shelter, okay, when morning came, And we wanted to take our shower. I can't remember whether you had to take your shower in the morning or at night. But either way, you get a shower a day. But this is what I did not like.
It was out in the open. They have one big open shower.
With a bunch of different heads so people can stand up at the same time to do it?
No, no. Just the shower might be as big as this room that we're sitting in, right? Right. And they tell us, all of us ladies. So, okay, everybody undressed. Everybody undressed and get in the shower. At once. At once. Right.
Like a locker room for a football team.
You stepping on me. I'm stepping on you. Your dirty getting on me. My dirty getting on you. Wait a minute. Wait a minute. So, one particular morning. Oh, yeah. And then they tell us, they said, you got five minutes in the shower, right? So one particular morning, I didn't even get to take a shower because when we got up and all, she said, okay, y'all got 10 minutes, five minutes in the shower like that. So I said, well, ma'am, you know, I was raising my hand a little bit like I'm in school. I said, ma'am, I said, I need to use the ladies room. She said, well, go ahead. So I went to the ladies room, right? So she was telling me, well, you need to hurry up because you only got five minutes. I said, well, ma'am, I'm using the rest room right now. So I need longer than five minutes. Well, OK, well, you just missed your shower. I said, well, honey, I'm sorry because I had to use the bathroom. I don't even think I went back that night. This ain't going to work.
Where'd you go after that?
I probably stayed in my van. A couple of times in between all of this, I did stay a couple of nights at the Santa Monica Mall up under the escalator. It was something where I didn't find another shelter. It wasn't a good day that day or something. Something didn't go right. So I just went to the Santa Monica Mall. I think two or three times and stayed under the escalator in the Santa Monica Mall.
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Chapters
6 chapters
1
What is the power of helping one homeless person?
0:00–1:01
2
Where did Rema grow up and when did she become homeless?
1:01–1:19
3
What challenges did Rema face while being homeless?
1:19–1:35
4
How did Rema and Richard meet and what was the turning point?
1:35–1:53
5
What lessons does Rema share about kindness and gratitude?
1:53–2:32
6
How does the system take advantage of low-income individuals?
2:32–22:42
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