加入新一期开营的第四期迷你退休营/早起训练营：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）You are my Nemo. If you get lost in the great, big ocean, I’ll find you.你是我的尼莫。即使你丢失在广大的海洋里，我也会找到你。（8:50 完整英语的访谈｜English Interview starts at 8:50）Nemo 有一部电影叫做海底总动员，描述一个过度保护孩子的父亲寻找孩子的故事（剧情：在澳洲大堡礁的深海中，小丑鱼爸爸玛林和儿子尼莫简单幸福的生活着，可是爸爸做事常常畏首畏尾，是个胆小鬼，尼莫觉得爸爸很不勇敢，甚至有点看不起自己的爸爸。小尼莫却天不怕地不怕，跟同伴们去水面玩耍的时候，竟然被渔网捞了起来，辗转被卖到一家牙医诊所。玛林对儿子的生死未卜感到十分的担忧，就算平时不能大胆行事，为了儿子也要勇敢豁出去了。可是在路上遇到了很多艰难与恐惧，令他十分胆怯。幸好他遇到了好心的多瑞，一路与他作伴。父子俩都遇到了很多热心的帮助，最终都能重逢，玛林也从此成为儿子以及大家心中的英雄。）1.Get lost 迷路2.Ocean 海洋Also, I heard this from my students a lot, when they meet a foreign person, or they like them, and then they would say something like, can I be your friend? I always find it a little bit bizarre. Yeah, so, you know, being, coming right out and saying, can I be your friend, is a little direct and, you know, I don't think it's a terrible thing, but, you know, there's a lot of people that would be just a little turned off and defensive when someone comes and asks that question so directly. Especially if it's somebody that you have never met before and it's just a stranger on the street coming up and saying that, or even just a first date. So a better question, a better way to ask that would be, would you like to meet for coffee? Or would you like to meet for a drink? Or can I take you out to dinner? All of those are a lot softer, more subtle. It's an invitation to get a chance to get to know them, to be their friend, rather than just a direct question. 3.Bizzare 奇异4.Direct 直接5.Turn off 倒胃口6.Defensive 防御的7.Subtle 微妙8.Invitation 邀请9.Rather than 而不是还有，我经常听我的学生说，当他们遇到一个外国人，或者他们喜欢那个外国朋友，然后他们会说，我可以做你的朋友吗？我总觉得有点奇怪。是的，所以，你知道，直接出来说，我可以做你的朋友吗，有点直接，但我不认为这是一件很糟的事情，但是，有很多人当有人来这么直接地问这个问题时，有些人可能会有点倒胃口和防御。尤其是如果对方是你以前从未见过的人，而这只是街上的一个陌生人走过来说，甚至只是第一次约会。所以一个更好的提问方式是：你想见面喝咖啡吗？或者你想见见喝一杯？或者我可以带你出去吃晚饭吗？所有这些都更柔和、更微妙。这是一个了解他们、成为他们朋友的机会的邀请，而不仅仅是一个直接的问题。加入新一期开营的第四期迷你退休营/早起训练营，请填写问卷预约30分钟免费谘询：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）我的IG：flywithlily微信：iflywithlily

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