Abbie Chatfield

Just wear something comfy and warm because we're in Melbourne.

And that is what women want.

Women do not want – they have this idea of women.

being controlling in decision-making, but it's because so many men don't carry their load when it comes to the domestic labor or the mental load of it all.

So they, oh, women are nagging us.

They're always wanting to control us.

They're controlling them.

And it's like, no, no, no, then no, no, no.

It's that you aren't doing anything.

So again, my examples of Adam, you know, the film and the stuff, that's so small and silly and like ridiculous and

particularly when he's doing things like that all the time.

Like even like for dinner, like because right now I'm having a hard time mentally, he'll just order me dinner and just be like, here's what you're eating.

Or he'll order me food to the house when he's in like New Zealand or when he's in America, he would like order me food to the house and be like, you know, that's what you need.

You need a rest from your brain operating.

So the idea that these men think that women are,

think that having – women use having a baby as though that's a fun thing to do.

It's beautiful and wonderful, but I'm sure the process is not ideal, particularly if you're sick during it.

They think women are getting pregnant so that they can become the decision maker and, quote, unquote, impose abuse on others in perpetuity.

Yep.

Also, in what world is someone saying, can you go up and check that sound, abuse?