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Alex O'Connor

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2073 total appearances

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On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Alex O’Connor: #1 Shift That Stops Endless Overthinking (FINALLY Get Unstuck)

But when you're a kid, academia is like the only thing.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Alex O’Connor: #1 Shift That Stops Endless Overthinking (FINALLY Get Unstuck)

Unless maybe you're like a particularly talented like footballer or something in school.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Alex O’Connor: #1 Shift That Stops Endless Overthinking (FINALLY Get Unstuck)

But even then, maybe your school doesn't encourage that kind of thing.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Alex O’Connor: #1 Shift That Stops Endless Overthinking (FINALLY Get Unstuck)

And you will be told that the most important thing in your life are your exams.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Alex O’Connor: #1 Shift That Stops Endless Overthinking (FINALLY Get Unstuck)

Don't get me wrong.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Alex O’Connor: #1 Shift That Stops Endless Overthinking (FINALLY Get Unstuck)

Those exams are important.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Alex O’Connor: #1 Shift That Stops Endless Overthinking (FINALLY Get Unstuck)

Like, nail them.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Alex O’Connor: #1 Shift That Stops Endless Overthinking (FINALLY Get Unstuck)

It will help you in the long run.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Alex O’Connor: #1 Shift That Stops Endless Overthinking (FINALLY Get Unstuck)

But the idea that that is kind of what life's about is obviously insane.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Alex O’Connor: #1 Shift That Stops Endless Overthinking (FINALLY Get Unstuck)

And I think kids like know that, but they haven't like felt it.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Alex O’Connor: #1 Shift That Stops Endless Overthinking (FINALLY Get Unstuck)

They haven't internalized it.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Alex O’Connor: #1 Shift That Stops Endless Overthinking (FINALLY Get Unstuck)

I speak to a lot of school kids and they've heard this kind of stuff, you know, don't let the exams rule your life and stuff.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Alex O’Connor: #1 Shift That Stops Endless Overthinking (FINALLY Get Unstuck)

But some of them, I think hearing that I literally did just completely fail and then change my mind and turn it around and it sort of relaxes them a little bit.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Alex O’Connor: #1 Shift That Stops Endless Overthinking (FINALLY Get Unstuck)

It's no guarantee that you're going to be able to turn it around and go to Oxford, right?

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Alex O’Connor: #1 Shift That Stops Endless Overthinking (FINALLY Get Unstuck)

It's obviously not the case.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Alex O’Connor: #1 Shift That Stops Endless Overthinking (FINALLY Get Unstuck)

I feel very lucky in that regard.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Alex O’Connor: #1 Shift That Stops Endless Overthinking (FINALLY Get Unstuck)

But like, there are options, man.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Alex O’Connor: #1 Shift That Stops Endless Overthinking (FINALLY Get Unstuck)

that would have been something i would have wanted to study and you can now that's the point right you can textiles yeah but i think you can you can get the the kernel of of what you might be into because maybe you might find that you really enjoy your art classes and you know you don't want to be an artist you know you're not going to be the next you know monet or whatever but like you enjoy it that should be enough to maybe think okay then i'll study that and i don't know where it's going to end up but that's the kind of thing that opens up these worlds that you didn't know existed that will help with being able to be an architect

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Alex O’Connor: #1 Shift That Stops Endless Overthinking (FINALLY Get Unstuck)

Because you will be able to draw images.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Alex O’Connor: #1 Shift That Stops Endless Overthinking (FINALLY Get Unstuck)

It will help with doing textiles.