Alison Fagan

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593 appearances 3 recordings 1 series first heard May 2026 last heard 19 Jul

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Alive and Kicking with Clare McKenna · The top three reasons why couples fight · 19 Jul 2026 podcast

You better be sure and thank the person.

You know, positive reinforcement.

Yeah, I think that it depends again on the accountability and the willingness on both parties to change.

You know, if a couple arrive at my door and they are at death's door, um

And they're not both willing to take accountability for both of their parts to play.

It's not just one person, it's never just one person.

Where there's one, there's the other.

Okay, there's a dance that goes on, how one person um behaves, the other person reacts to.

And so there's this cycle of behavior and reaction that happens.

And both people need to be accountable for their part to play in that.

So, in the willingness to change, I think both people need to be hugely accountable for what.

They are willing to bring to the table in this new phase of their relationship.

The old relationship may be dead, but they need to both be willing to create and put their efforts into creating a new relationship and a new way of relating because the old way clearly wasn't working.

It's not all just at one person's door to make the required changes.

But then there are some couples where they've reached the end of their relationship, and that can be, they can reach the end amicably or they can reach the

end where maybe just the trauma and the hurt, possibly if it's an infidelity and it was going on for years and there's huge secrecy and huge deceit and a huge lack of

trust.

Sometimes that can be too much for people to repair from.

But that's not always.

I mean, there is comeback from infidelity and those huge breaches of trust.

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