Alison Fagan

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593 appearances 3 recordings 1 series first heard May 2026 last heard 19 Jul

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Alive and Kicking with Clare McKenna · The top three reasons why couples fight · 19 Jul 2026 podcast

So really what you're doing is you're coming from your feelings rather than attacking the person for their behavior.

So for example, when you don't text that you're going to

be late home from work and you go t fr to the pub and I'm at home cooking all day and you don't let me know.

I feel like you don't see what I do.

I feel like I don't matter.

I feel unimportant to you.

When you can come from that space of like I feel rather than you this, you always, you never, you're not attacking, you're coming from a much more empathic stance.

And the chances of you being heard and understood rather than being criticized are so much higher.

So there is a method to rowing.

Yeah, absolutely.

Absolutely.

Not when they've been an hour and a half stuck on the M fifty and you start into 'em about or into her even um about why they keep leaving their clothes on the floor, why they never help around the house or how tired you are.

it's not going to be heard, it's not going to be listened to, it's not going to be appreciated.

So I think asking, is this a good time?

You know, can we sit down, can we talk?

When might be a good time?

Can we go for a walk?

So pick in your moment, not in a pinch point when you're cooking dinner and the kids are doing their homework and uh either your husband or your wife are just in from their long day.

I think when you start to learn what works for the other person and what or what sets them off, you can start to change your type.

Your type is

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