Bela Gandhi

They feel like they're making good choices.

They're doing...

the online dating, and they don't feel so afraid of it, right?

Anything we do from a place of fear typically doesn't lead to good results.

I think one of the most profound things that we do with people kind of harks back to what I did when I was sitting in the library in college trying to figure out, OK, how do I do this?

And so we have people.

I'll tell you the whole exercise.

So let's say I'm working with a woman who's looking for a man.

I'll say, describe to me in all of his glory, just tell me who your dream guy is.

And I actually have one of these, I know.

Like, this literally, describe to me who your dream guy is.

And so, funny side statistic, take a guess as to the number one thing that women have said to me over the last 16 years about their dream guy.

The number one characteristic.

Tall.

Ideally over six feet.

My husband's five, six on a big hair day.

Okay.

So I'm with you.

You know, and I tell them, so we go through this whole exercise of who's their dream guy, right?

And sense of humor, funny falls into that.