Bela Gandhi
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Podcast Appearances
But then I asked them, so we get their whole list ready.
We know exactly who the dream guy is.
Then we ask them the second question.
I say, tell me about the people in your life that make you really happy.
We call them elevator people because they elevate you.
They make you happy.
But like an elevator, they make you feel grounded and safe.
Who are your elevator people?
And they're like, I don't know.
I'm like, who are the people that make you happiest?
They can be alive.
They can have passed.
There's no have to have.
Nobody's ever going to see this list.
And so we have people run through every person that they consider an elevator person.
And what they start to see through this is that there is a distinct theme in their elevator people.
Because I'm probing for the characteristics that make them happy.
It's not, oh, my friend Jonathan, because he's cool and he's tall and he's got a great podcast and he's wickedly smart.