Bela Gandhi
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
There's, you know, am I pretty enough?
Do I look good?
Whatever it is, what I want to tell every single person that's listening today is that the
I have full certainty love exists for every person that wants it.
I say there is a lid to every pot at every age.
So I want you to take people call me a psychotic optimist because I say this.
I'm like, love it.
They're like for everyone.
I'm like for everyone that wants it, that's willing to follow a system that might be different than what we've done before.
But love exists for everybody that wants it.
And I've seen stories that would blow you away.
Yeah, I think there's two things.
In this time in midlife, right, people think, oh my gosh, I don't have enough time.
And that fear and that deeply ingrained belief kind of surfaces in so many different ways in the dating world.
And then the other one.
I tell everyone the game is kind of rigged against us.