Bela Gandhi
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Because I too have been married 29 years.
And there's a lot of fear about getting on the app.
But what I tell people is, OK, again, it's our thoughts lead to our feelings.
Our feelings lead to our actions.
So let's recede that thought of thank goodness the dating apps exist.
And thank goodness there are.
There are resources like me that can teach you how to date using the app so that you're not going to end up with the Tinder swindler or getting catfished, right?
I think people have so many fears about what being on the apps mean.
But what I would tell you is if you're a listener debating like, oh, my gosh, could I get on the app?
Should I get on the apps?
The answer is a resounding yes.
Do it with guardrails around you.
But think about, it was hard enough to meet people in your 20s and 30s today, right?
And now, thank goodness for the dating apps.
We don't use words, if you think about it, like old maid, old spinsters, right?