Bela Gandhi
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Let's do this thing.
Have some kids.
A couple of them will probably die, and we will too by 30.
Your farm's a little bigger than mine.
But now we want so much more out of partnership.
We're living into our 70s, 80s, and 90s, but our brains don't know how to find that long-lasting, enduring love.
And that's what I say.
Love isn't luck.
There's a system to find it.
You just have to know that your biology is working against you in this arena.
Oh, 100 percent.
And it's the things that they told us.
And now with regards to our parents or our caregivers, it's what they've role modeled for us.
And if you have one parent that, you know, was, you know.
narcissistic or avoidant or just not great.
And we can repeat those patterns or we can repel those patterns.
But why do we repeat those?