Bela Gandhi

And so the grant study shows that it's the quality of our relationships that matter, right?

And if you, again, if you think about it, we're never taught how

how to do this.

And remind me of what your question was, because I was going somewhere and I want to make sure I answer the question you asked me.

It's a yes and.

That's exactly right.

I mean, if you look at divorce rates in this country, it's 40 to 50% of first marriages end in divorce, 67% of second marriages, 74% of third marriages.

So while love is an amazing thing that we all want, having a plan and a system to do it, and this is part of the cultural messaging, right?

We should just fall in love.

If we think about it, where else in the world is falling a good thing?

And so there's a lot of messaging like it should just be easy.

I should just know.

And the fact of the matter is so many of us don't know.

That's how I started this company.

I didn't know.

I was in college and I started to date.

And to your point, my parents are immigrants from India.

They met on a Sunday.

They were engaged on Thursday.

They were married 72 hours later.