Ben Ilubuchi

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589 appearances 3 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 14 Sep

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The Hook Up · What The Hell Is A Situationship? And Am I In One? · 27 Jul 2026 podcast

But in my mind, a situationship is a relationship with another person where you were doing everything that you would normally do in a monogamous relationship.

The conversation just hasn't happened yet about the boundaries of that.

I think that's the important part is that the conversation hasn't happened.

Because in my mind, a lot of

you know, monogamous relationships start, the more emotional stuff starts before that conversation happens.

So that's pretty normal.

But I think a situationship, it's gotten to the point where it's like, okay, we're really pushing that conversation down the road.

I think there's like a duration sort of aspect to it, in my mind, at least.

Yeah.

You're building ties to the other person without actually speaking about those ties.

Interesting.

Again, it feels like everyone has a different definition of it because in my mind, situationships that I've been in, they have felt like a situationship to me because I do have intention and I do like the person.

I do see it going somewhere.

Yeah, I think that's a lot of the time you don't realize you're in a situation ship until it's like too late.

like i don't think anyone's like okay now time to get into my situation ship that is often the thing with situationships is that you don't realize you're in one until it's too late until it is i don't think anyone goes into it going like okay i'm entering a situation ship i personally have been thinking that i was forming a monogamous relationship with son and then i realized that it isn't moving the way i want but i'm stuck because i really like them and then i'm like okay i'm in a situation ship now

You know what I mean?

But you end up...

Sort of being like a conspiracy theorist.

You sit at home and you're like, okay.

So they spent 20 minutes with me, but those 20 minutes could have meant 40 minutes to them.

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