Ben Ilubuchi

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589 appearances 3 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 14 Sep

Ben Ilubuchi’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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The Hook Up · What The Hell Is A Situationship? And Am I In One? · 27 Jul 2026 podcast

And when I check their Instagram, they haven't been... I think that usually happens when you don't know where something is going.

I think if you have entered that mental space, that's when it's getting out of hand.

Yeah, I do.

And I want to preface this by saying I was young at the time.

So like with years since I have felt more grace for this person because, you know, they were probably figuring themselves out as well.

But I was seeing someone where we were seeing each other like a couple of times a week and getting very intimate right off the bat.

And there was a point where she had gotten like a disposable camera.

It was like taking photos of us together in the park.

And then I was like, oh, do you want to be my Valentine for Valentine's?

She's like, yeah, I'll be your Valentine.

And then we hung out on Valentine's day.

And then like a week after she just like,

You did that, the thing where you start to retract the... Withdraw.

Slow ghosting and doing that thing where, like, if I showed it to my friends, the messages, they wouldn't be like, oh, they wouldn't have really anything to say about it.

But me, as a person who's gotten used to a certain level of emotiveness in the text messages, I was like, okay, what the hell is going on?

This is done.

And then eventually I was just like, hey, I can tell this isn't going the way that I want it to.

I think it's maybe best if we just end things here.

Being mature, but hoping she goes, what are you talking about?

I love you.

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