Ben Ilubuchi

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589 appearances 3 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 14 Sep

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The Hook Up · What The Hell Is A Situationship? And Am I In One? · 27 Jul 2026 podcast

I'm like, I'm sobbing.

And then if your friends ask you about it, you're like, oh, it was a girl that I met a month ago on Hinge.

And we like the same movies.

And yeah, so that's why I want to throw myself off a bridge right now.

You feel so stupid.

I just think if you're exclusive, you're in a relationship.

I think it's as simple as that.

To me, if you are having the conversation about exclusivity, it's like, what else is...

We were speaking about the idea that a label is for something that exists, not the other way around.

You don't label something and then it becomes that.

If you are in a point where you are sleeping with someone, you have strong feelings for them, and the final thing, you've agreed to be monogamous, no matter what happens next, it will be a breakup.

You will feel like you've lost your boyfriend or you've lost your girlfriend.

So you may as well just...

call it a relationship i don't know if that's close-minded but i don't know what people get out of not calling it a relationship because if they sleep with other people you're upset sounds like a relationship to me you have a commitment to each other that sounds like a relationship to me if it ends saying i love you potentially i love you potentially that sounds like a relationship to me i think if if you were in a exclusive situation with someone and they said i don't want to see you anymore would you be like oh i feel all right because you know he wasn't my boyfriend no yeah

It's the same thing.

I feel really old school about that.

And I've noticed a change happen with my single friends.

They're like, oh, you know, we are just seeing each other, but it's not anything yet.

I'm like, who the fuck are you kidding?

Yeah.

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