Ben Ilubuchi

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589 appearances 3 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 14 Sep

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The Hook Up · What The Hell Is A Situationship? And Am I In One? · 27 Jul 2026 podcast

I think in a monogamous relationship that ends, no matter how hard it is, the other person still has to acknowledge, I loved you.

This is over.

We're at least at parity in understanding what this was and it just has to end.

Whereas when a situation shifts ends, you are hurt.

And then also the other person kind of feels like they've taken you for a fool.

Yeah.

You couldn't even make it two months.

Yeah, we were speaking about the fact that after enough situationships, you do start to get, I think you get more and more secretive every time you get into one.

So by the time you get to your maybe last one, you're not telling your friends anything about them.

I had a situationship where my friends just knew her by her Instagram handle.

That's how I referred to her.

That's how she came up in their minds.

I would share an Instagram photo with them.

That's all they knew of her?

Yeah.

To this day, that's the only name they know her by is her Instagram handle.

I also think like, have you ever had to go into work after a situationship?

I have photos of me crying in the middle of a Woolworths because that's where I used to work.

Just like on my knees, not because I was crying, because I was stacking the shelf.

But I can show you the photo.

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