Ben Ilubuchi

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589 appearances 3 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 14 Sep

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The Hook Up · What The Hell Is A Situationship? And Am I In One? · 27 Jul 2026 podcast

So I do agree that it doesn't need its own sort of name to it.

Yeah.

Again, if you're happy with it, it's not a situationship.

It's a casual relationship.

I've had plenty of people I've seen and had a connection with who I would not consider it a situationship.

And I don't think they would either.

I think regularity of relationships,

time spent together also goes into it because like i think if you are sleeping with someone you know once or twice a month for a long period of time i think that isn't a situationship and i think it prevents it from becoming one but when you are spending enough time with someone that it's like affecting your ability to explore things with other people or just you know have time to yourself or see your friends and it's not escalating and they're not dedicating themselves to you i think that yeah that's when it becomes a situationship and that's what it becomes kind of

I think dating apps also allow you to meet people who have no connections to your friends or family, which I think allows a person to just kind of do whatever they want.

They're like, Hey, I'll see him.

And if I treat him badly, it'll end and I'll never hear from them again.

And I'll never have to sort of answer for this.

I think dating apps allow you to also sort of without noticing get better and better at

doing that you start to see the patterns of what kind of people like to hear and what gets the best like this makes you sound like a sociopath but i think everyone like pre-dating apps you just kind of got to meet people and you don't get the pure influx of human beings that you speak to so you kind of got to start from scratch each time but with dating apps you kind of

Love that, Reva.

That was incredible, Reva.

Yeah.

Sure.

All of the times I've ended up in a monogamous relationship, it's actually been like super easy.

There's been no

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