Cam Fraser

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418 appearances 8 recordings 1 series first heard Jun 2021 last heard Aug 2022

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The Hook Up · What is death grip syndrome? And do I have it? · 30 Aug 2022 podcast

So uh standing up and and breathing and moving the body can be a really helpful way of like expanding that experience of arousal and pleasure.

Uh that's that's the beginnings, I suppose.

Yeah, I I do sometimes suggest um to like abstain from masturbating for about seven days or maybe even uh two weeks.

Uh and

What I what I suggest clients do in lieu of specifically masturbating and experiencing sexual pleasure in that regard is to diversify their experience of pleasure in general.

So I suggest like, you know, exploring their relationship with pleasure by you know maybe eating new things and this the sensations or the pleasurable sensations that come from eating or from going for a walk and being outside and feeling the sun against your skin and just

It's like tapping into their experience of sensuality in a very practical way.

But

Find positions that do stimulate you to the point where you are able to ejaculate with a partner and then start to leverage those to build that intimacy, to build that connection.

You know, one of the other reasons why a person might have trouble getting to an ejaculation is there's intimacy and emotionality issues there as well.

So someone who is afraid of quote unquote letting go.

And surrendering into an intimate experience.

So, yeah, one of my first suggestions is find a type of stimulation that does get you to the point of ejaculation so that it's kind of like the the physical side of things is kind of taken care of.

And then from that space, start to build some intimacy back in, start to build that vulnerability back in, start to build that emotionality back into that experience.

And then typically what happens is then that's creative.

creates the safety for them to experience ejaculation, for them to kind of let go enough to experience ejaculation.

And they can start to move back into physical positions that aren't as like, oh, I've got to get into this position or I have to need, I need this position to kind of get to this point.

They can kind of shift into like, oh, let's be a bit more in the moment.

Let's explore pleasure together and let's, you know, not have to worry about having to use a certain position to get to ejaculation.

like dial down the um intensity of the visual erotic stimuli that they're watching, right?

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