Cam Fraser
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418 appearances
8 recordings
1 series
first heard Jun 2021
last heard Aug 2022
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So maybe watching some pornography that's more amateur, that's more related to their experiences of sex with their partner, stuff that like reminds them of their partner, maybe.
Taking a break from porn is always a good idea as well if you're feeling like that's what you're doing every single time you're masturbating.
But there's ways of using it as a tool to help like drop back
Into your experience of eroticism so that you can start to utilize it to then build that arousal and then you know ejaculate without needing a specific stimuli.
This is an ABC podcast.
My intuition and just experience working with men tells me that probably in the younger years of experimentation and exploration of our bodies, maybe around the ages of 13, 14, 15, that uh guys have probably tried.
I reckon um there's probably a lot of guys, whether they admit it or not, to uh to trying, they probably have.
That's kind of what I'm feeling, I suppose.
But like I said, I can't really back that up with any empirical data.
If you're not limited up enough, maybe pulling a muscle and uh hurting your back.
I suppose if you've got uh genital herpes uh or some sort of um STI, uh, but for the most part, I don't think there's anything that could quote unquote go wrong.
I don't think it's inherently a bad thing.
So this is something I'm actually really passionate about, which is like destigmatizing like exploration of pleasure, particularly for cis men.
And there is overall a general uh fear, let's say, of exploring other areas of your body because what it might mean with regards to your sexuality or your sexual orientation or your masculinity.
You know, there's a lot of homophobia, um, internalized homophobia for a lot.
straight guys in particular.
And so you know if they're exploring other areas of the body, they st they they have questions really and it and it um there's some anxiety around what that might mean for them.
So I think that you know generalized fear really extends to this
Is this a weird thing for me to do?
Is you know, should I be okay with this?
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