Carla Kaufman Sloan

And we were like, oh, we were both surprised.

It wasn't something we were really thinking about, but it was exciting.

And so then that...

grounded me literally like i stayed in miami and we were pregnant with calder so were you excited to have a boy or did you not care were you just like whatever comes my way i never really thought about it but when i found out he was a boy i was a little bit nervous because i'm such a girl i guess i don't know i guess if you ask my friends they might not agree with that but i thought oh how am i gonna raise a boy and it was the best thing ever like he was just fun

And funny and just like just so full of life from the beginning of the journey.

He was just this fun and hilarious little guy.

What's the age difference between your two boys?

Two years and two months.

So they were really close.

And Calder and Caleb.

And Caleb, yeah.

And they shared a room.

And we had the car beds.

We had the whole thing.

We were like boy, boy, boy.

Calder was a fish.

He was an avid swimmer from both of our kids.

We lived in Florida, so they started swimming when they were little toddlers, and he just really loved it.

We call him a unicorn in our family because he was super athletic, and none of us are.

But he would swim.