Carly Ann
speaker
3,395 appearances
19 recordings
1 series
first heard May 2026
last heard 10 Aug
Carly Ann’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Sometimes it worked, other times it didn't.
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But now I can do it if I notice that I'm falling into any of these patterns.
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I recognize now.
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is it's a form of diffusion to use language to support myself to step back to become the observer.
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And yes, I'm having these thoughts.
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Yes, there's this style of thinking.
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Now, when I can recognize, ah, I'm in self criticism.
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It just almost gives me this
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moment of realization of okay, I'm feeling this way because I'm believing all of these thoughts.
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But the reality is I am just in this automatic cycle right now of criticizing myself.
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And the thoughts, they're coming thick and fast.
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And there is that balance with the fixing and controlling thoughts, there's that balance because yes, I want to acknowledge the thoughts.
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I want to acknowledge my internal world.
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But it's I don't want to stay there too long convincing myself that actually I'm a good person because then I'm just in the overthinking.
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So it's very much about
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n as soon as I can, noticing it and naming it.
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Write those down.
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I'll list them out again now.
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So you've got worry, rumination, threat monitoring, the fixing and controlling thoughts, self-focused attention, self-criticism, and intrusive thoughts.
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Write them out.
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