Chantelle Otten

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881 appearances 8 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2018 last heard Sep 2021

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The Hook Up · Am I good in bed? · 27 Sep 2021 podcast

But those feelings and those tastes do change as you go along.

So what makes you good at sex?

Actually asking, like, does this feel good for you?

Can I do anything different?

Not coming into an erotic scenario with an ego or with, I guess, your own journey in mind without collaborating with your sexual partners.

think like one thing that we also have to highlight is if you ask yourself what sex is and you ask someone else, they're probably going to have totally different answers.

And that's because everyone has different understandings of what counts as sex.

And I think, you know, when it comes down to sexual compatibility, that also comes down to

how well your individual beliefs and your needs and desires around sexual activities mesh with that other person.

And that comes down to, first of all, what is your definition of sex?

What is the duration and frequency of desired sex?

What are your turns ons and turns offs?

What's your relationship orientation like?

And where do you want to have sex?

And I think at the end of the day, with sexual partners, regardless of not, you know, maybe it's like a fling or maybe it's like a long-term thing, either way, you have to come to the situation and go, what can I do to make this really good?

And there is nothing sexier than a partner going, what are you into tonight?

What do you feel like doing?

You know, because...

I think if you come together with someone who assumes that they know what you want in the bedroom, that's when we can lead to disaster.

Because I also think at the start of each relationship, you might have some type of way that you're having sex and the two of you might be having the best time, but that will be totally different in 12 months' time.

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