Clinton Power
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807 appearances
8 recordings
1 series
first heard May 2017
last heard Aug 2019
Clinton Power’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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But in the end, it actually makes them pretty miserable because they're not really doing something that they're completely on board with.
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You have to have, again, a very honest conversation about the type of sex you want to have with other people.
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Because, like as Jamie mentioned in his story, if you're, you know, maybe you're just doing mutual masturbation with other people, that's not going to be an issue.
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But if you're having intercourse or anal sex, that is going to be more problematic.
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And particularly, if you're in a same-sex relationship, you want to be talking about
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You know, are you using condoms?
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Or really, it doesn't matter if it's same sex or a straight relationship that you need to talk about the use of condoms and what you're doing to protect yourselves in your interactions with others.
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So you can really minimize the risk.
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Of course, you can never minimize it 100%, but at least you can minimize the risk.
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I think you need to have a conversation with each other about what kind of details you want.
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Because some people are perfectly happy just knowing, okay, you're meeting John at 10, you're going to have a great time and you'll be back by midnight and that's perfectly fine.
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And then another partner might actually want all the gory details.
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And that could be a positive thing because for some couples that's very arousing, exciting, they love hearing about it.
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the pleasure their partner has been experiencing.
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But then you can also go the other end of the spectrum where you're getting the gory details and it actually eats you up.
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It really upsets
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stewing.
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You're starting to feel insecure.
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And that's not a good thing.
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So, you know, early on, just have a chat about, well, if we're going to disclose to each other, what kind of details do we want to share?
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