Dave Evans

Yeah.

Yeah, well, we just had the conversation with Chip Conley, you know, Mr. Modern Elder Academy guy, you know, and he's pushing the midlife chrysalis, not the midlife crisis.

Crisis is doing it badly as opposed to this transformational thing, which is, I mean, it's a nice pitch.

He's a lovely guy doing really good work.

But no, life is change.

You know, if I really believe that being a person is being a becoming –

then it's going to change.

And some of those changes are real seasonal stage-like transitions that are pretty interesting.

And, you know, you have to decide if it's worth it.

Okay, so fulfillment, I can be fully alive, which is, again, back to be fully alive in the present moment, even with its...

apparent insufficiency of particularity.

It's just, I mean, this is my, it's actually my first can of new tonic.

Yes.

I think it's the best one I've ever had.

Fantastic.

You know, is it the best, you know, caffeinated drink on the surface of the earth?

So far.

Good.

So far.

So am I willing, am I willing to say, you know, not quite, or am I willing to say, I'm really enjoying this and let it be what it is and not, not blame it for what it's not yet.