David Kessler
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But it becomes like, as long as I know to get second opinions for the rest of my life, I'm keeping everyone safe.
And we do.
So guilt is that false control that we need for our survival.
And here's what I have people do.
I go through all the what-ifs.
And I have people write down, what if we'd gotten a second opinion?
If only we had seen all those what ifs.
After I have them, list the what ifs and if onlys.
Give it space.
Let it breathe.
Talk about them.
I'm not going to, you know, people go, don't talk that way.
You can't bring your dad back.
Shut up.
Let me talk.
People talk.
I listen.
We go through the what-ifs.
I give them their due.
Then I have them cross out the what-if and go even if.