David Kessler
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Let it out.
Let it go through.
Okay.
Here's what I would say.
A few things.
Guilt is grief's companion.
Guilt is right on that road with grief often.
And here's what people don't understand.
Our mind would always rather feel guilty than helpless.
I got some control.
Oh my gosh.
Here's my control.
Second opinions are the key.
So I'm just making this up for your husband.
I don't know him or anything.
But it becomes like, as long as I know to get second opinions for the rest of my life, I'm keeping everyone safe.
And we do.
So guilt is that false control that we need for our survival.
And here's what I have people do.
I go through all the what-ifs.