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Dee Selman

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
266 total appearances

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The Hook Up
Is PDA A Sign Of Intimacy Or Is It Performative?

We should ask.

The Hook Up
Is PDA A Sign Of Intimacy Or Is It Performative?

We should ask the expert about that.

The Hook Up
Is PDA A Sign Of Intimacy Or Is It Performative?

That's such a good point because you do have to ask the why.

The Hook Up
Is PDA A Sign Of Intimacy Or Is It Performative?

Like if you're basically having sex in public.

The Hook Up
Is PDA A Sign Of Intimacy Or Is It Performative?

Yeah.

The Hook Up
Is PDA A Sign Of Intimacy Or Is It Performative?

Why?

The Hook Up
Is PDA A Sign Of Intimacy Or Is It Performative?

Yeah.

The Hook Up
Is PDA A Sign Of Intimacy Or Is It Performative?

And a why might be because they don't have anywhere else to have sex.

The Hook Up
Is PDA A Sign Of Intimacy Or Is It Performative?

As in like you might be in your teens and you can't do it at home.

The Hook Up
Is PDA A Sign Of Intimacy Or Is It Performative?

Yeah.

The Hook Up
Is PDA A Sign Of Intimacy Or Is It Performative?

You know, like it could, yeah.

The Hook Up
Is PDA A Sign Of Intimacy Or Is It Performative?

Or it could just be because you love each other so much and you just want to have each other right now in this moment.

The Hook Up
Is PDA A Sign Of Intimacy Or Is It Performative?

I can't not have you.

The Hook Up
Is PDA A Sign Of Intimacy Or Is It Performative?

A kink, as we haven't even spoken about the fact that it could also be a kink that people get off doing.

The Hook Up
Is PDA A Sign Of Intimacy Or Is It Performative?

That's true.

The Hook Up
Is PDA A Sign Of Intimacy Or Is It Performative?

Is that what you're into?

The Hook Up
Is PDA A Sign Of Intimacy Or Is It Performative?

either like depending on where you live sarah said depends where i am in the world and who i'm with safety is definitely a big factor and ben saying i've been pushed and verbally abused enough to learn pda isn't an option as a gay man austin sent us this voice memo as well talking about it growing up in country victoria it was very rare to see same-sex pda

The Hook Up
Is PDA A Sign Of Intimacy Or Is It Performative?

I love that so much.

The Hook Up
Is PDA A Sign Of Intimacy Or Is It Performative?

I genuinely absolutely love seeing queer relationships in public like the PDA, especially where I live in Melbourne.

The Hook Up
Is PDA A Sign Of Intimacy Or Is It Performative?

Every time I go to the shops I just get so โ€“ I'm like it's just so nice and I just think like that love being publicly celebrated is so important.