Dee Selman

I do think for me, if it's like long-term partner dating for that, I like for it to build.

And I do think there's a level of like your fast tracking intimacy with physical touch.

Like I am definitely not a very physical touchy person.

So if someone's like fast tracking that level of physical intimacy with me, like I'm probably going to freak out and get the ick, especially if it's like in public and

And I wonder if there's like a level of – like what does that mean to that person, right?

Like if I – this is a pessimism in me.

I go if a guy is like really trying to like hold my hand or like make out with me in public after a couple of dates, like is that a bit performative in the sense that you want to show that you're with me?

Like a marking territory?

Yeah, is it like an ownership thing?

I don't know.

I would be a bit –

The hand holding.

You don't get to skip the queue and like jump ahead like that to that kind of intimacy.

Right.

Well, yeah, let's chat about relationships.

Say you're in a relationship with someone.

We wanted to know on our Instagram at Triple J The Hookup, how do you feel about doing PDA in your relationship?

And 42% of you said you like it.

Only 12% of you said that you don't.

I thought it would be higher, to be honest.