Dee Selman

So then I'm like, are you just more free than me or are you generally just not caring about how other people in the room feel?

Do you think it's selfish?

Is PDA selfish?

In that context, I kind of do think it is, especially in the context of a library.

Okay.

Like I just think time and place –

Don't grab and make out with your partner right in front of your friend's face for ages.

Like, I don't know.

Yeah.

I don't know.

I do want to hear, though, how people feel about PDA in their own relationships or the people that they're dating or hooking up with or seeing or whatever.

Talia says, I love, in brackets, reasonable PDA when I'm in a relationship, but it's a strong no when I'm dating.

I totally know what you mean.

I think for me it would be the context, right?

Like I've definitely PDA'd if I'm hooking up with someone on a night out.

Oh, yes.

Like that's – if it's like a one-night stand or it's like someone you're casually seeing, then I would probably definitely PDA and I'd just be like at a gig or like wherever I was.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

But, yeah, if I was like intentionally dating someone, like we're going for a dinner –

And then we're like date two and you're like, hold, like, I don't know.