Devoney Kodad

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2,481 appearances 18 recordings 1 series first heard May 2026 last heard 14 Aug

Devoney Kodad’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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So for me, when I was moving through the season of, oh my gosh,
Why are boundaries so hard?
I'm such a people pleaser.
And I like can't say no.
And I'm just spiraling about what other people are thinking about me.
And I wanna set a boundary, but I am terrified.
Okay.
In that moment.
My nervous system was literally acting as if a bear
was about to attack me.
Literally, that's how I was acting.
And when I realized that, that my nervous system, my brain were not sensing the difference between I want to set this boundary
And a bear is close.
That for me was huge because it just it it made so much sense.
It was such a light bulb moment of oh
That's why in my body, as I am trying to set this boundary, I literally have all of the adrenaline, all of the cortisol.
I feel unsafe.
Not that anything unsafe is actually happening.
And it could be setting a boundary with one of my safe people, one of my closest people.
And still when I was in this season of my life where boundaries felt so unsafe and speaking openly and honestly and right, just being myself, things like that felt genuinely unsafe.
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