Dr. Brad Wilcox

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Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex · Why Finding Love Feels Harder Than Ever, #614 · 13 Jul 2026 podcast

And then do it again, you know, and go a little bit deeper and come out.

The point obviously here is just that the way to address that fear is to try to figure out little things you can do that kind of push you in the direction of socializing with women and becoming more comfortable, you know, in your own skin.

And you can nowadays text or DM someone as well.

I mean, the worst thing that they can do if they're and especially if you know that they're a a person of good character.

is just kind of, you know, turn you down.

So just encourage the guys just to kind of take whatever small steps they need to take that bring them closer to having the courage to ask someone out in whatever manner seems feasible.

Yeah, that's a great question.

And I I think it's it's a hard question though, in in a couple of ways.

So I think, I mean, first of all, I would sort of say it's important to try to figure out as you're getting to know someone, sort of how do they act with their friends, with their family members, with the you know, the waitress at the restaurant, whatever it might be, to kind of to get a sense of like what the character looks like.

So you can do kind of, I think you can kind of

kick the tires on the character front, you know, pretty hard.

And that's that's one way to kind of minimize your chances of landing in this p position.

But it's, you know, people are still going to land

In some

I would say minority of you know, small minority of cases in situations like the one you're talking about where the person you end up marrying is a is addicted to drugs or is abusive.

And if that's the case, you know, then I would

Um, say you should separate from that person.

Um but again, like I think one shouldn't give up on the hope of love or marriage just because there are people who are narcissistic or abusive or you know addicted in in some way.

But the I think the harder kind of point to make here too, to kind of push beyond both of those two scenarios is to understand and appreciate that.

We are all sinners.

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