Dr. John Duffy
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736 appearances
2 recordings
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first heard Oct 2019
last heard Jan 2025
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Um one of my favorite examples happened in my office recently.
A a mom recognized, like, oh, I get why you don't listen to me.
You know, I come down really hard on you.
I'm not a very good listener.
So she
She copped to all that.
She she said, effectively, um, I don't like the way I've been in our relationship.
And so, and I apologize for that.
And I want to get to know you, I want to understand your world.
Um, I don't want to take any risks with your well-being.
I love you too much.
It's too important.
So even if you have really hard things to say to me, I'm gonna work harder than I ever have.
to listen and to be an ally to you as opposed to working against you and you feeling like you can't talk to me.
So she kinda hit this really, really elegant reset with her daughter and her daughter responded beautifully and said, I really appreciate that.
You know, like and this is a 16 year old talking to her mother.
Um it was really something to witness, but I learned a lot there because it was like
Oh yeah, it isn't too late.
You can always come back to it and say, this hasn't gone very well, has it?
You know, and if you're if you're meta about it like that and you're not defensive, I think you can get I think you can get movement very, very quickly.
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