Dr. Nicole McNichols

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1,376 appearances 3 recordings 3 series first heard Feb 2026 last heard 7 Jun

Dr. Nicole McNichols’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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And when you interview them and ask for the reasons, it's because often they...

Right.

Mm-hmm.

One person felt insecure and rejected, and it just leads to more and more pressure.

And again, the more pressure you're putting on the sexual experience, the less likely you are to enjoy it, right?

The less likely it is to be pleasurable.

Isn't this innate ability to have an orgasm that is just somebody's permanent skill set, right?

It's through communication.

It's through being able to use phrases like, guide me or show me what you want or help

is this feeling good?

Or should I do more of this?

Or show me what you like.

It's using slight shifts in position or slight shifts in initiating something that feels really good to you.

It's using sighs and moans to, again, communicate what's working, right?

And so it's

shutting down honest communication if you're just shutting yourself off from your partner by faking an orgasm and essentially using deception, right?

And if you think about the couple that's been together maybe for 20, 30 years, and there's been a repeated pattern of faking orgasms,

It can be a really hard place to all of a sudden, you know, 20 years in, say, honey, I've actually been faking orgasms all this time, right?

And all of a sudden, it's sort of this monumental time when you're like, oh my gosh, our sex life just hasn't been what I thought it was, right?

Now, there is...

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