Dr. Nicole McNichols
speaker
1,376 appearances
3 recordings
3 series
first heard Feb 2026
last heard 7 Jun
Dr. Nicole McNichols’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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The reality is that all of us really want to be desired, right?
Feeling like somebody else really wants you is a huge aphrodisiac.
Which, I don't know if you've seen the show Heated Rivalry.
Yes, exactly.
I mean, that's what's fascinating is that the main viewership of that show are heterosexual women.
millennial woman it's a hit for heterosexual women because that show taps into our fundamental need for desire right if you look at those two male hockey players it's not just about the physical sex that they're having although to be fair it's hot it's hot
But it's also just exploding with the tension between them, them wanting to connect with each other, have sex with each other, falling in love with each other, but feeling restrained from doing so.
And I think it really speaks to the fact that, you know, first of all, desire and passion and romance, it's one of America's top sexual fantasies.
And it feeds into this very core human motivation to want to feel wanted.
We all want to feel like our partner desires us.
And it's also pointing into something else really fascinating about human sexuality, which is that a lot of times the things that we fantasize about or the things that we can watch and get turned on by don't necessarily line up with what we want in real life.
It's because we are designed as human beings to
to be creative in our desires and to place ourselves into imaginary situations that allow us to open ourselves to fantasies and desires and emotional states that are core to our level of wanting, but that don't translate into the details of what we want to do in real life.
In heated rivalry, there's this sense of egalitarianism.
They're both rich.
They're both hot.
They're both star hockey players.
And so seeing them together, seeing them navigate a relationship where they both have equal power is...
It's not a man dominating a woman.
It's not a woman experiencing the need and the desire which we're used to seeing.
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