Dr. Nicole McNichols

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1,376 appearances 3 recordings 3 series first heard Feb 2026 last heard 7 Jun

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And of that group, 80% identifies bisexual.

So I think that it's time that we celebrate that fluidity, that multidimensionality.

That doesn't mean that you're secretly hiding your real sexual orientation.

It just means that we're complex.

And sometimes what we enjoy in our imagination is just what makes us uniquely human.

And sometimes it doesn't translate into what we want in real life.

So it's multidimensional.

And it just also depends on the particular domain, fantasy, imagination, what you actually want in real life.

It can vary across those contexts as well.

Yeah.

So there is unfortunately this long history of shame towards people who are kinky, right?

And the idea is that if you are kinky, you must have experienced childhood abuse, right?

That's a major myth.

And that you are just trying to relive this abuse over and over and over again.

And this myth is so, so pervasive that there's actual studies showing that this is not the case, right?

There have been studies looking at people who are kinksters and interviewing them about their childhoods.

No, actually, the majority were not abused as children.

What it is, is...

you know, a need for novelty, right?

And excitement.

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