Dr. Nicole McNichols
speaker
1,376 appearances
3 recordings
3 series
first heard Feb 2026
last heard 7 Jun
Dr. Nicole McNichols’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
Trend
recordings per month · last 12 monthsRecordings per month over the last 12 months — 3 in all, peaking in Feb 2026 with 2.
Appearances
And...
What we find is, you know, a couple of interesting things.
First of all, it really largely boils down to motivation.
You know, in other words, if you are looking at the sexual experience and coming from a place where you want excitement and it's adventure and it would feel good and to be pleasurable and that's sort of the thrill of the chase and it seems exciting.
you are probably more likely to have a positive experience.
We tend to have more negative casual sex experiences when you're doing it because you're secretly hoping it's going to lead to more, but you don't quite know how to ask for that, right?
Right.
And again, because we live in this culture that makes you feel like you're needy if you ask ahead of time, I'm not quite sure where things stand.
Can you let me know?
Or I can't quite tell what you want.
I'm really into you.
This is really exciting.
I love spending time with you.
I'm really attracted to you.
But I'm not that into casual sex.
So can we have a conversation about kind of where we are?
versus also normalizing phrases like, are you okay if this is just for fun?
Are you okay if this is just about a night of excitement?
In other words, part of the problem is that because we put so much shame on casual sex experiences, we need to feel like we need to hide our motivation if that's really what we're looking for.
And by acknowledging that sex can be satisfying in a variety of contexts,
Showing 701–720 of 1,376 · page 36 of 69
← Previous
Next →