Dr. Richard Hogan

I was Richard Hogan before I met my partner, you know, who's my wife now with three kids.

You're still Richard Hogan.

And she's Erica McDonagh before she met me.

And she's still Erica.

And that's such an important thing to hang on to.

I always think a healthy relationship is about being together, but also about being separate.

And if it all becomes together and I'm a dad and that's my identity and I'm meshed in this family, it's not healthy.

Massively tricky.

And then, let's say, an affair comes in or the person leaves you and your whole identity is caught up in this little unit.

It's like you're trying to figure out who the hell am I now, you know?

Here's a good one, right?

I know you'll have good insights into this one, Ciara.

Have dating apps changed relationships for the worse?

It's like you have a menu.

What I think of dating apps, right?

A couple of things.

There's a bit of research that said that dating apps aren't actually trying to connect people.

They're trying to partially connect them.

So they'll go back on the app.

They'll meet the person, go back on the app.