Dr. Richard Hogan

But I just think that working clinically with it, when you see the devastation that an affair brings in, and I think there's a difference between a one night stand and an affair.

So do I. You know what I mean?

And then you're left with, did he ever love me?

Was any of it ever real?

I mean, that's an existential thing.

Yeah, if it's not real.

Did he ever like me?

Did he ever really like me?

And when he was with her, what was he thinking about?

Yeah, was there any truth in his feelings?

And you know, you're right.

I just remember just thinking this.

So they're less disrespectful is what I mean.

But I do think people think that texting and I also think people feel like when someone flirts with someone or has been a little bit like, you know, flirted, it's kind of a form of cheating.

And I remember sitting with a couple of years ago and the wife felt that the husband watching pornography was cheating.

And I'm kind of thinking, well, I wouldn't align with that personally.

You know what I mean?

If I came home and my wife was watching pornography, I'd be going, how dare you cheat?

I wouldn't feel that whatsoever.

No, I couldn't.