Dr. Sarah Ashton

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309 appearances 3 recordings 1 series first heard Dec 2020 last heard Oct 2021

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The Hook Up · I think I have a kink, now what? · 7 Dec 2020 podcast

Our brains are association machines.

So if we have an orgasm and then we kind of pair that with, so it depends on what we're focusing on in that moment.

So any sort of sensation, anything visual, any smell, anything we taste, right?

And we're focused in on that in the moment and we're having the experience of arousal or orgasm, then our brain pairs those things together, right?

And particularly if that's

Orgasm is if it's early on, that's going to be more neurologically powerful.

But if it's if it's significant, that will also be neurologically powerful.

So if it's a really good orgasm, and or if it's repeated over and over again.

So if we have an a paired association with that same point of stimulation and an orgasm, then those are things that can develop preferences or it can develop, we can develop a fet a fetish, right?

So that can

happen, you know, again, much more powerful earlier on, but it can definitely happen as an as an adult.

And also as we kind of

um explore different parts of ourselves sexually and we kind of evolve as sexual beings, we can discover that we have new preferences and they can explore different parts of ourselves.

So it's it's really never too late.

As long as you're open, then you might discover that you have a kink or a fetish that you really enjoy.

Look, I think that most of the time it's understandable that we have internalized judgment attached to something that we might find arousing that we perceive as sitting outside the norm because you know, we're social creatures and we wanna like we wanna fit in.

We don't want to be different to the people that we're around, but it's just so important that

you remember that actually if you're not hurting anyone, there's nothing wrong with with you know what you're aroused to and what turns you on.

In fact it's it's great and it's fun and it can be really amazing to explore that, you know, by yourself or or with anyone else, you know.

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