Dr. Sarah Ashton
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309 appearances
3 recordings
1 series
first heard Dec 2020
last heard Oct 2021
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the limits and boundaries of of of someone's body physically and their their mind emotionally, so that you're on the same page about what you need and what you want and what's going to keep keep you safe physically and emotionally.
Um, but there might be some acts that that actually hold such such high risk um in terms of the the outcome that um
Yeah, there needs to be serious consideration around how you're actually going to explore that king.
um how you can do that safety uh safely and if you're actually going to be able to do that safely at all.
surround yourself with people who are experiencing the same thing as you.
You know, maybe it's not exactly the same sort of kink or fetish, but you know, having this as part of the way that they, you know, they live sexually in the way that they perhaps, whether it's part of their relationship dynamic, to find people who are experiencing the same thing, you know.
Um, so that's one of the most useful and most powerful things that you can do.
For this reason, most people who practice kink and who are members of the kink community choose to use a SEAM name.
So this is a another name that they use while they're in the kink community and they they don't disclose their their legal name or their real identity.
And so in considering your own safety, especially your own safety online.
I think some important things to think about are to just check to see that all the things that you're posting mean that you maintain this anonymity so that you're not posting any e images or photos of yourself, which perhaps are on other websites that could be identified or linked with your name, um, that you're not including any information about where you work, any
email addresses or any any content that could be linked back to your real identity.
Look, most people in in the Kink community are in the same position.
So they're extremely respectful of other people's privacy and they understand that that this is part of keeping everyone safe.
But yeah, it's really important that that you just are conscious of that and and check all the information that you're providing.
So how
This all starts with your personal exploration and um an ability to accept this as part of yourself.
And of of course in a world that that stigmatizes it and doesn't accept it, this can be particularly challenging.
But, you know, once you see this as being part of yourself, then it's much easier to to integrate this into your into the rest of your life with a feeling of of pride and enjoyment and and acceptance if you can free yourself from that that sense of shame.
then that that's just about the most powerful thing to do because you know, we'll be waiting a while for society not to be to be a bit different.
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