Dr. Sarah Ashton
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309 appearances
3 recordings
1 series
first heard Dec 2020
last heard Oct 2021
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So if you've had a difficult emotional experience or even like just any kind of
Experience that maybe is a bit scary in your past.
And you look at the experience of like sex and intimacy.
Sex and intimacy is obviously something that feels nice.
It gives you like lots of wonderful chemicals that move through your body and your mind.
And so a lot of the time, you know, kinks or particular scenarios like role-playing can actually provide like an alternative.
ending and an alternative emotional association with perhaps an experience which was was not so great in the past, right?
So if we think about, you know, like a a daddy king, for instance, right?
So um a lot of people grow up perhaps with fathers who are maybe a little bit more emotionally withheld or they they don't know how to express love and and and warmth and
communication.
perhaps in a way that some people would would like to receive or would need to receive it in that way.
So what the what happens is that um there can there can often be a lot of you know neglect or or trauma associated with this experience.
And daddy kinks could what a way that you could explain it, I mean, and look, this really just depends on the individual person, um, but is that it's it's creating a new association, right, with with this kind of kink, with this dynamic that it
allows there to be an experience of like new chemicals, new kind of pleasure and association with a dynamic which potentially in the past was painful or difficult, you know.
And then if we add on on the an added topic of like sexual behavior with like uh you know a parent is kind of forbidden is taboo, then
Anything that's taboo is going to involve an element of adrenaline and psycholytical stimulation when when you engage with it, right?
And adrenaline is going to add to the level of sexual excitement and arousal that you actually experience, right?
So if you kind of take all those kind of factors together, those are some of the things that could influence someone's preference for, you know, a daddy-daughter kind of scenario, hypothetically.
On the surface, if you consider like a lot of kinks or different kind of scenarios that might be kind of stereotypically associated with kink culture, like, you know, whips and chains and force and violence even.
you know, on the surface level, if you don't know what's going on, then of course you're gonna look at this situation and go, oh, I that makes me feel uncomfortable or I I don't understand, or that doesn't seem right to me, right?
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