Eimear Coffey

So you can probably see it already.

I was in the loop.

I was in the cycle, you know.

I didn't realize it at the time.

It was just so hot and cold.

So I was on this emotional roller coaster.

And then in June 2019, I got a phone call.

I pulled into my driveway in my house and I got a phone call from a woman saying,

to say that she was with him.

She was having a relationship with him for the past year, which would have meant just before Ollie was born.

She had suspicions that we were still in a relationship together.

When I hung up the phone that day, Brenda, I wasn't even upset.

I just screamed, I knew it.

I knew something was so wrong, you know.

Now, obviously, as things unfolded, it was it became really traumatic because what unfolded in the following months was just so shocking that I was with the person really that I didn't know that I was leading many different lives that was with other women.

And, you know, that was that was lying on so many different levels that

And I don't know how he masked it and how he kept it all going.

But, you know, I did speak to some of the other women and, you know, he deceived them too.

I was never angry at them.

I was just, I tried to just be kind to them.