Elisabeth McKay

And if you overconsume overgeneralized Instagram content, you may actually believe the other person is the problem over and over again, missing the one opportunity you had to look in the mirror and take ownership for how your nervous system was patterned so that you can actually get out of it.

most toxic relationships that I have worked with, the person that is convinced that the other person is the problem eventually realizes that they are the problem.

And very often it's coming from jealousy.

So it behooves you, and yes I said behooves, to do a little bit of self-examination.

And while jealousy is not something that is easy to admit,

If you admit it and you face it head on, you can rewire it.

You can get to the other side.

And then you can start to actually create relationships in your life that aren't constantly in a state of volatility or where you're in a relationship where you're not in highs and lows.

When I've dealt with people like this, they're either obsessed with me and I'm their favorite person ever and they do everything that I do or I'm like an evil cult leader.

We are not supposed to exist in these sort of high contrast points.

That is because you're going from obsession and fixation to feeling like something's been robbed from you.

Meanwhile, oftentimes the other people have no idea what's going on because this person is living in a different reality than everybody else.

And if we're talking about strongholds, for those of you that are in my Renew Your Mind work when it comes to more of the spiritual side, this is a perfect pathway to being completely deceived by all kinds of things in the spirit realm.

And we're not going to go too

We're currently on the spirit realm in our modules right now.

So if you don't know about Renew Your Mind, you can go to my Instagram and you'll see my Renew Your Mind course.

We're going through the biblical basis for neuroscientific rewiring and how that intersects with the spirit realm and mental illness.

So if you are interested in that, you can go pop over there.

But you end up accidentally coming into agreement with the spirit of offense, accusation, and you end up often, I see this all the time, people position themselves as they are operating under some sort of holy spiritual authority when they're quite literally just acting out all of these very messy childhood patterns.

So approach wisely, right?