Elizabeth Shaw

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The Hook Up · Taking or leaving your parents' sex and relationship advice · 12 Nov 2017 podcast

But I think the more you understand yourself and the more you in your first few relationships get a sense of how you end up behaving and how you come across and and what sort of people you choose, you can start to put your own stamp on things.

But it does take a bit of self-awareness insight.

Yeah.

that?

Well, this has been um hugely influential and um and it was developed um sadly through observation of children in hospital wards.

Um in in many years ago it was thought that if a child was in hospital, um there was an observation that if the parents came to visit as they left the child got very upset.

In those were the days where parents weren't allowed to stay overnight.

So there was this idea that we in fact shouldn't have parents visit because that would prevent children getting upset.

So there was this idea that instead of thinking, well, we need to bring parents in closer, there was an idea about separation.

And so these these effects of separation and b and proximity started to be studied by psychologists.

Can you remember what era that was in, roughly?

So this was in the fifties and sixties and so

So um and it was obviously a very sad time in terms of how we thought children operated.

Time into the

And it was this idea that, you know, children could get past anything.

I mean when you look at some of the forced adoption programs and so on, it was this idea that children

You know, if you just sort of could treat them any old how and they'll grow out of their memories and they'll, you know, uh that it won't affect them.

So I think various people studied this and um and so John Bowlby being a a prime um figure in attachment theory.

So what he he determined were that there were three main styles of attachments, um secure, anxious, and avoidant.

And um and since then

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