Elizabeth Shaw

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1,154 appearances 11 recordings 1 series first heard Nov 2016 last heard Sep 2021

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Ellie from Cronulla, how
Oh look I think that's such a a great example where you can start to fling accusations and often that's just a
um an indication of what's happening makes people nervous.
You know, if you're not volatile then I can't work you out.
You know, that's what I'm used to.
So again, the more a couple can talk about this and just as as the caller just said, look, I'm I love just as much, but I don't need that much physical affection.
As long as the couple can learn to read each other, then they don't have to take it personally.
But also in a in a relationship that's any good at all.
You also know that if your partner needs these things, like a bit more physical affection, you step up because you don't want to torment them, you know, so um so what we need to do is not be this fixed sort of um entity that well this is how I am and I'm not budging and that's where attachment theory can sometimes be used as a kind of a a justification or a fixed box.
But over time we can change some of these things.
Oh gosh.
Well, I mean also we can't lay everything at our parents' door, you know.
I mean these things do make a big difference perhaps.
Um but it's also what we've interpreted from that.
I mean sometimes when you've seen your parents in love, you don't stop to sort of question them about
How did you get that right?
And um and you know, and are there times you've questioned it?
In fact, you can have an idea that your parents have a certain sort of relationship without ever um digging into the details.
And sometimes that could give you a bit more information.
Um but again I'd wonder why those people have interpreted those events in quite that way.
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