Elizabeth Shaw

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1,154 appearances 11 recordings 1 series first heard Nov 2016 last heard Sep 2021

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The Hook Up · Pre-booked holidays with new relationships · 28 Aug 2017 podcast

You know, it I I think too it can be a way of um causing trouble in the relationship, a way of breaking up. matched

You know, there's just you've really got to work out your motivations for doing, get really clear and do some soul searching. matched

Um, not because I'm suggesting deception's a good idea, um, but there might be all sorts of other motivations that are lurking. matched

Look, absolutely. matched

There's a there there is a lot of emotional intelligence in that and and I sitting here it's a good judgment call by the sound of it because that relationship's gone on to be strong and it was uh it was a good choice. matched

I guess though in principle, um matched

a relationship that's either based on anxiety, um or based on um, if I'm not with you I can't trust myself, um, would be problematic. matched

Um and I think I think he's suggesting that he knows that, which is to his great credit. matched

Um so I'd so I think I think um I think though under you know ordinary circumstances if if you are scared to go away in case you'll lose the person matched

or you can't trust yourself then then it's worth doing some kind of self reflection. matched

And Matt what was matched

to let them come back to you? matched

Uh look, I think probably there's something in that. matched

Obviously you've had a whole lot of people contact you that have um have said that it's worked out, so we have to be open to that. matched

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Um, I think it's certainly true that if they're going away, you you've got to obviously let that happen. matched

Try and stay in touch in a way that's like you normally would if you're in a relationship. matched

Um, try and be open about um about what your agreements are and how you're gonna manage that. matched

Um but I think the you know, as I as I mentioned before, the emotions are much more heightened because of this inbuilt loss that you meet someone and you're in you're facing loss straight away. matched

It makes the relationship seem more intense, it makes the whole thing more dramatic and traumatic. matched

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